You Don't Have To Dread Monday!

     As i'm sitting on my sofa, drinking my gingerade kombucha, watching Jurassic Park with my family I am literally living in the moment. Tomorrow is Monday but i’m not dreading it. Tomorrow morning we are all getting up and driving to the town we use to live in for a day of sitting by the water and drinking fruufrruuu cocktails :-)

     By the time you read this it will inevitably be Monday. You will be sitting at your office desk, sitting in traffick, getting the kids ready for the bus so you can head into work, and stressing about how insane your day is going to be on top of the fact that you have to be at work all day. My prep for tomorrow was fill the diaper bag again, plug in my tablet and my phone so that they could charge, and grab my lap top to do a little typing.

     I use to dread Monday’s when I was working at my corporate America job! I mean I literally could NOT wait for it to be Friday so that I could leave my desk and send time with my family. I’d be FREE for the weekend.. WHAAAHOOO! But inevitably Sunday morning would come and I’d start to feel anxious. I’d start whining about how much I didn’t want to go to work on Monday. I was letting the onset of Monday ruin my entire Sunday without even meaning to. But it’s what I was taught to do. Growing up we went to school, so we could get into college, so that we could graduate and get that job that we’d stay in until we retired. That was the only way to provide for your family. Drive to a job, do what you were told, and get a pay check that someone else dictated every two weeks. If you didn’t like your job… O’well, suck it up because you have bills to pay. YES bills are extremely important and YES you should make a living for your family but your work CAN and SHOULD be something that you enjoy, something that makes you feel alive, something that you wake up and you're excited to do!

     I’m here to tell you that there really is such a thing as a career that can meet those qualifications. You CAN have a job that you want to get to on Monday morning. There IS a career that will make you feel alive. I realize that Entrepreneurship doesn't work for everyone and there are lots of people out there that want a job where they show up and collect their paycheck. BUT, if you're reading this and you’re thinking THERE HAS TO BE MORE… I NEED YOU! There IS more out there!

     You should be LIVING your life not dreading a day of it. You don’t have to be chained to your life. Your destiny may not be Beachbody coaching, it might be another business, but you should be inspired and go full speed ahead without hesitation! One day at a time I want you to start working towards your passion so that you can eventually feel the maximum happiness capacity in life, so that you can feel freedom in your schedule, so that you can wake up rejuvenated and honestly say that you love your life!

    If you are interested in what I do and you are a take charge kind of woman then I want you on my team!!!!

Here are your options:

1. Complete the application here to be considered for a spot on my team: Application For Prestige Dynasty. Because my next new coach training actually begins September 5th and I will teach you everything you need to know about starting a business from scratch like I did!


2. If you have never done a Beachbody Fitness Program before and you would like to start with your own personal journey then join my Fall Accountability Group! Click Here to get more information. 


ALWAYS remember that you are the ONLY person who can determine your own success. Set Goals, Dream Big, and NEVER give up on what you want most in life!

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Introverts Run The World

     Idunno how many of you know me or have been following me for awhile but lemme start by saying I LOVE STAYING IN MY HOUSE! No really! Don’t get me wrong I am a Sea World aholic… like for real, if they said “Hey wanna come bring your family and live here” i’d be like “UMMM HECK YEA!!!”. But honestly I don’t know how long that would last for me because there are ALWAYS sooooo many people at the park. I love going to visit, I thoroughly enjoyed every visit as a kid and I LOVED taking my son there for the first and second time. But after each visit i’m literally “out of commission” for a day or two. I stay in my house, I stay in my jammies, I will avoid text messages-my inbox-messenger-social media sites if possible. Now those last items tend to be harder for me because, as many of you know, I run my business solely online. But after being around so many people I just need a day or two to recover.

     I know I know, “Lauren get to it already!” My point is, I run a business online, I spend everyday and as much of my day as I possibly can talking to people and getting to know them and where their journeys are taking them. But at the end of the day I am an introvert at heart and I'm super shy. My job takes me out of my comfort zone daily and pushes me to do, what I use to think was, the impossible. Every day I talk to women who say “I could NEVER do what you do because i’m just so shy”. Let me tell you, in all honesty there are days where I dread logging onto my lap top because I know that I am going to start reaching out to new people and that TERRIFIES me. While I always end up enjoy the conversations I have I’m ALWAYS terrified that I'm gunna come off as a weirdo, a stalker, nosey, pushy, creepy, weird (yes I said that twice). Guys I have fears every day, same as you. But I have BIG goals and those goals keep pushing me daily. I want so badly to share this AMAZING experience with you too. Coaching has truly changed my life and I know that it can change yours too! But at the end of the day I know that it can be intimidating to MANY!

     Personally, have you ever looked around at the top earners or the most successful people in our society and thought “WOW, I wish I had their life, they are so outgoing and successful, they are so smart” but you instantly assume YOU can’t do what they do because you’re shy, you're a homebody, you are the classic definition of an introvert. Well heres a little tid bit about those top earners, MANY of them are introverts! Don’t believe me? Well here are a few people I KNOW you’ll recognize and they are in fact introverts to their core.

Bill Gates 

Albert Einstein 

Emma Watson 

Mahatma Gandhi

Audrey Hepburn

Warren Buffett

Steve Jobs

Steven Spielberg

     These AMAZING people listed above are introverts, but don’t take my word for it, I always encourage you to go and check the facts for yourself! “When in doubt google it out” They would rather stay home, alone, with a good book, away from people. BUT the thing is, they all had a vision to make a difference and they DID! Sure they may need to recharge their introvert meter now and again, I know I do, but they keep pushing forward- towards their goals. I have found this amazing group, it’s strictly for the ladies (sorry gents), to help me handle being an introvert in a people based career. It’s called “The Female Introvert Lifestyle Mastermind” and every day there are helpful tips and tricks to keep your inner introvert grounded and focused. If you have ever doubted your ability this might just be the place for you!  Check it out >> The Female Introvert Lifestyle Mastermind <<

     As ALWAYS- I'd LOVE to help YOU create the life you know you deserve! If you want more info? Shoot me an email @ Lauren.N.Young04@gmail.com or send me a Facebook message @ https://www.facebook.com/LaurenEvansBBC

     If you have questions on how to get started I’d love to hear from you! Click >> COACH << and register to get me as your FREE coach!

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But What If My Spouse Doesn't Support My Dreams

      I’ve gotten this question a few times this week, since people watched my "sneak peek into coaching" videos.  It's a really good question, but a tough one to explain.  “What happens if my spouse or significant other doesn't support my dreams, I don't know that I can do it”. Well here’s the thing, if you're partner doesn't support your dreams then you probably aren’t with the right person. Ouch right, it’s a hard couple of words to hear but there might be some truth in it. Becoming your own boss takes a LOT of work. You must dedicate time to your business. You need to be able to contact people and build relationships with them. You need to be able to show that what you are doing or selling does work and can benefit others. You need to earn the trust of those you want to work with the most. All of these things take time. These items aren’t going to happen over night, they take time. Your partner may not see the worth in your efforts because they aren't immediate. 

      Sadly, I can personally say that I know what it’s like not to have a partner support you in your dreams. To constantly hear “what have you done?” “Have you made any sales?” “Oh look they’re hiring, you could apply there” “We should just talk to them about you working”. It’s disheartening. It makes you feel like you're worthless and that all your hard work goes unnoticed completely because you're not working a “9-5” like the rest of society. Many people give up and just give in to what their partner wants because it’s hard to listen to them put you down all the time. Maybe they don't mean to do it maliciously but it still happens and it hurts. You're not alone, many people go through this when they find their passion. You find your calling, you believe in it with all your heart, you see the potential, and EVERY DAY you make an effort to work towards those goals. You are on FIRE and you finally feel great about something. You’ve helped sooooo many people change their lives and yet you still get “Are you done playing on your computer?”.

     The idea of starting something new can be scary to others around you. When those around you are content in their lives, in their 9-5’s, in working for someone else who gives them orders, in not being able to take vacation unless their boss says its ok, it’s hard to make them see that what you want to do is worth something too. When you start a new venture you are going to find a number of your close friends and family will try to tell you your not going to be successful. It REALLY sucks to hear that but you need to be aware that it can happen. Many people are uncomfortable with the unknown. When you start a business online MOST of your close circle will think your nuts at first. It’s terribly sad to think those that mean the most to you don’t believe in you. Sometimes you just have to bite your tongue, take their words, and just do your thing all the while knowing that someday you WILL show them that they were WRONG. You CAN make your dreams come true no matter what anyone thinks. If you are willing to dedicate time, energy, and effort into your passion you CAN achieve whatever you set your mind to.

     You MUST believe in yourself in order to make your dreams come true. You ARE important and can accomplish whatever you put your mind to. You WILL succeed if you set goals and you work towards them each day. You WILL start to remove the negativity from your life once you start following your dreams. I can promise you WILL lose friends along your journey, but the thing is- if they were only there for you when your life was tough it just means they enjoyed having friend as miserable as they are. You don't need that kind of negativity in your life and you will begin attracting like minded people once you start building your new life.

     The reality of the situation is NO, your partner may not support you. Is that the worst thing ever? It sure feels like it in the moment. But truthfully the worst thing ever is you not achieving what you know can be a better life for you in the future because you're focused on someone else's opinion. YES it’s going to suck to have that person always downing you, but you CAN rise above it if you know that your dreams can be a reality. You ARE important and I believe in you. If you need someone in your corner I’m here and ready to be your support system. I have a success partner who believes in me and that is enough to keep me moving forward in what I KNOW is my direction in life. Tie yourself to someone positive and ride their coat tails until you feel secure enough to fly on your own. You WILL build the life you deserve if you take a chance on yourself and choose to ignore those around you who are constantly negative.

     So what happens if your spouse doesn't support you? Chase them anyway! Work when they aren't around, build relationships when they are gone at work, work after they’ve gone to bed so that you don’t have to justify your time spent. Create the life you know you deserve and don’t let anyone try and stop you! You are worth more!

“Don’t Dream Your Life, Live Your Dream”

I'd LOVE to help you create the life you know you deserve! Want more info? Shoot me an email @ Lauren.N.Young04@gmail.com or send me a Facebook message @ https://www.facebook.com/LaurenEvansBBC

If you have questions on how to get started I’d love to hear from you! Click >> COACH << and register to get me as your FREE coach!

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